Wednesday, March 14, 2012

The Renewal :: An Interview with Annapolis Formal & Tuxedo

I’m so excited to share today’s renewal post with you! Why? Because it is my interview with Flavia from Annapolis Formal & Tuxedo! If you read my “Yes to the Dress” post and my “10 Things I Learned About Dress Shopping”, then you know how wonderful of an experience I had with Flavia and her mom, Dora, while shopping for my renewal dress(es) {NOPE, still not telling what/which dress(es) I chose!} So, I wanted to know more about this amazing shop, and Flavia was kind enough to answer all my questions! And, Liz and Ryan from Elizabeth Ryan Photography, took some great shots of Annapolis Formal to share with you too! Enjoy!

Q: Can you tell me a little bit about how your started Annapolis Formal?
A: Well, actually my uncle Andy Dziekan started Annapolis Formal almost 30 yrs ago! My mother Dora has been working at Annapolis Formal & Tuxedos since then.

Q: How long have you been in business?
A: I bought the store 3 yrs ago and love it!

Q: How do you suggest that a bride prepare for her first dress shopping appointment? Should she bring anything? Pictures, undergarments, shoes?
A: First, we believe it’s important when making an appointment to keep the number of your group to one or two individuals whose opinion you value the most. If you bring too many people, you end up leaving with your head spinning due to so many different opinions. Next, come in with an opened mind. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had brides against a certain style or fabric and end up buying exactly that! A good strapless bra and some heels are always a good idea for trying on wedding gowns. Pictures are good to give us an idea of what you like, but personally, I like to start from scratch. I watch to see what the brides pull from the racks and then I go from there.

Q: Do you need an appointment to try on dresses?
A: Yes appointments are a must…Our shop is a small and personal boutique and we want to give you our undivided attention!

Q: How long will the appointment last?
A: Appointments are 1 hr long, but don’t worry you’ve got plenty of time for decision making. Second appointments are common.

Q: I experienced the dress shopping “moment” at Annapolis Formal first hand. It was an amazing afternoon that I won’t forget. Can you share why you feel your shop is different than other, perhaps more commercial salons?
A: Well, our boutique is very small and we make it a point to be very personal. We’re definitely accommodating in terms of time, if you have a hectic schedule and can only come in after hours, no problem! We can stay open late for the working bride or open the shop a little earlier if need be! Also, the ladies in our shop have been doing this for a long time! Combined, we have over 27 years of experience! We have seen it all and are happy to share ideas and experiences with you. We also do not work on commission. We truly want you to be happy with your purchase, so we do not pressure you into anything. We want you to buy from us because you WANT to buy from us, not because you feel pressured. We don’t like pressure, a wedding is stressful enough!

Q: Since I fall into this category and I know there are probably a lot of brides that have this question, I want to ask how you handle situations where the bride might be concerned about the sample size dresses being too large or too small. Do you have a variety of sizes and styles for brides to try?
A: Designers send our gowns in sizes 10, 12 and a few 14. We clip the gowns in the back or hold them for you to get an idea of what the gown would look like. For the most part, you can get an idea of what the proper size will look like on you.

Q: Do you counsel brides on best fit/style for their body type?
A: First, I like to hear what they have in mind, and then I go from there. I ask them to pick out 3 or 4 gowns that they like and then I will pull gowns that I know will fit their shape best and have the brides try those on as well. Nine times out of 10 they end up choosing the gown I pulled :)

Q: What is the best piece of advice you would give a bride when choosing her wedding dress?
A: Don’t ever feel pressured into buying a gown and don’t talk yourself into liking a gown. It’s a huge investment and you have to LOVE everything about it!

Q: Do you have bridesmaids dresses too?
A: Yes we have long and short gowns.

Q: What about tuxes?
A: Do we? Yes and we’re so excited to have new styles for the spring! We have several wedding suits in charcoal, navy (which looks fantastic with our khaki pants..very nautical). Tuxedos are definitely fashion forward. We have new Ralph Lauren, Calvin Klein and few others that are European trim fit with flat front pants and the fabrics are super 100′s!

Q: And, attire for the little ones in the wedding too?
Q: Yes, we carry flower girl dresses and ring bearer tuxedos.

Q: Do you have a favorite dress or new trend in wedding dresses to share?
A: This is so hard to answer! I love all my gowns. There is a lot of lace this season and sleeves and straps are coming back! I do have a favorite fabric….. SILK! It feels like heaven!

Q: Describe Annapolis Formal in five individual words.
A: Friendly, Experienced , Honest, Intimate, Personal

And, there you have it!  If you are getting ready to start dress shopping or have struggled in finding the perfect dress, I would definitely make an appointment with Flavia at Annapolis Formal!  Happy dress shopping everyone!

Thursday, March 8, 2012

10 Things I Learned About Dress Shopping

So, yesterday, you got to see my “Say Yes to the Dress Post” and today, I’m giving you a list of ten things that I learned about dress shopping — 10 years later!

1. Try on all styles of dresses – just because it looked good on the model in a magazine, doesn’t mean it will look good on you! I definitely didn’t think I would end up with a strapless dress the first time around and didn’t realize this time around that a sweetheart neckline looked amazing on me. Remember what your mom always said, “Try it, you might like it!”

2. Use your resources – okay, for those of my friends who knew me in my “former life” when I worked for Accenture, this little motto was drilled into our heads. Who knew it would apply to weddings too?!?! For dress shopping, using your resources means that you should lean on the experts!!! If the person who runs the bridal shop, in this case, Flavia at Annapolis Formal, pulls dresses for you, then give them serious consideration. They see hundreds of brides and know what looks best on different body types.

3. Don’t be afraid of the number – you know what number I’m talking about…the size of the dress. Who cares?!?! It’s not like the size is emblazoned on the side of the dress! Buy the right size that fits you today. Don’t say, “oh I’ll lose 20 pounds, so I can buy the smaller size dress.” Why stress about it? The dress should look amazing on you, no matter the size. Be happy with you, not the number!

4. Expect the unexpected – if you know going into the dress shopping experience that their might be bumps in the road, you won’t be overwhelmed when they occur.

5. Speak up – you will have questions or moments of indecision during this process. When these moments happen…speak up! Perhaps it is that the skirt of the dress is too full or pleats are too big. Ask if they can be altered. You never know unless you ask!

6. Bring a cheering section – you will want support from a friend, bridesmaid, maid of honor and/or mom. Have a few people there to cheer you on, be a sounding board and to take notes! A side note to this item: have the RIGHT people by your side…the ones that want you to look amazing, know your facial expressions and can put aside their own likes and dislikes to know what is perfect for you!

7. Have fun! – I can honestly say without a shadow of a doubt that this dress shopping experience was F-U-N!!! I tried on tons of dresses, smiled until my cheeks hurt, spent time with friends and drank champagne! Amazing! I feel that this is how buying your wedding dress should be!

8. Don’t get discouraged – I know that my experience might not be the same as everyone’s. I have been lucky to find THE dress easily, but I know there are plenty of brides that have a hard time finding their dress. I guess because I know what it feels like to find the perfect dress, I know that the moment is worth the search. Take your time, try a new boutique, ask other friends where they got their dress and know that your dress is waiting for you!

9. Document the moment – I was so lucky to have Liz and Ryan by my side to take photos of my dress shopping experience. I’ll be able to share these with my daughter before her wedding and point to the dress and my face and say, “See, that is how you should look when you find the perfect dress!” You might not have your professional photographer in your pocket, but pick someone to take pictures of all the dresses you really like. It might even help solidify your decision after you get home and can see what you look like in photos.

10. Get excited! – I didn’t get excited about shopping for the dress until after it was over. If I could go back, I would have been more positive about the whole experience from the beginning. I would have counted down the days, pinned dresses on Pinterest and been jumping up and down before I tried on dresses. Be sure to let the worries slip away and just get excited for this once in a lifetime moment!

Again, special thanks to Elizabeth Ryan Photography for the photos and for being such wonderful colleagues and friends! Also, thanks to Flavia and her mother, Dora, at Annapolis Formal, for making my dress shopping experience one that I will remember for a lifetime!

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

The Renewal :: Say YES to the Dress!!!

I’ve been thinking for days about what to say in the post…it’s not that I don’t have anything to say…it’s that I have TOO much to say. First, let me say how wonderful of an experience I had at Annapolis Formal. Those that know me, KNOW that I have dragged my feet, muttered un-lady like things under my breath and put off this whole “dress shopping thing” for way too long. But, let me say that Flavia and Dora at Annapolis formal were SO amazing that I really wish I would have done this months ago. They listened to me, helped immensely, were honest, sincere and “got me”.  And, it was SO MUCH FUN!!!!!

And, because I know you guys would want to share in all of the “goodness” from the day, Liz and Ryan from Elizabeth Ryan Photography came to take pictures and document all the dresses!!  Oh, and I did bring my trusty sidekicks…Brittany and Kaitlin…to provide their opinions and support. I couldn’t have done it without the whole “crew”!

I’m going to let the pictures tell the story of this trip. I have learned from seeing these pictures that I have about a thousand “faces”. You can tell exactly what I’m thinking by looking at my face. I’m going to number the options and feel free to weigh in with your opinion. Keep in mind that I’m thinking of wearing a special occasion dress (aka bridesmaid dress) — perhaps two — one for the ceremony and one for the reception. Oh, and just so you all know, I did say “YES to the Dress”, but you are going to have to wait until September 28th, 2012 to find out which dress…I have to keep something a secret!!!!! Stop back tomorrow for 10 Things I Learned about Dress Shopping – 10 Years Later.



DRESS #1 – POCKETS!!!

DRESS #2 – One Shoulder…………………..DRESS #3 – Flower

DRESS #4 – Sweetheart Neckline

DRESS #5 – Straps

DETAILS! Details! details!

Love the flower!………………………………Add a colored sash for a pop of color!!!

Beautiful fascinator that can be added to any dress!

Again, I had such an amazing time! Thanks again to Annapolis Formal, Elizabeth Ryan Photography and my ABD team! I’m getting so excited! Remember, check back tomorrow to read my top 10 list for dress shopping — along with more pictures!!!

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Allison Barnhill Designs Wins Two Bright Lights Editors’ Choice Awards

As a testament to my outstanding clients, and my commitment to producing the best-of-the-best in wedding stationery design, I am thrilled to announce that I have been selected as a winner of the 2012 Two Bright Lights Editors’ Choice Awards!

The award is given in recognition of the those whose number of published features in 2011 placed them among the top 5% of all Two Bright Lights members. Winners were published across many of the most respected lifestyle, wedding and other print and digital publications in the United States and worldwide.

I am honored to be part of this group of talented photographers and creative professionals. My features this past year have enabled me to increase exposure for my work, and I am thrilled to have been recognized for my endeavors.

In 2011, I had the privilege of being published in the following publications:
Destination Wedding Charleston: A Dream Military Wedding!
Nautical Maryland Wedding by Corey Hendrickson

And, many, many more! Such a wonderful year. To see all of the places we are popping us, check out our “As Seen In” page!

Thanks to all of the other creative professionals who made these features possible!

To see more of my work, or to get in touch about my services, please visit www.allisonbarnhilldesigns.com.

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

The Renewal :: An Interview with Intrigue Design & Decor

Before I get to my interview with Intrigue Design & Decor — the fab florists who will be doing all the flowers and decor for the renewal — you should know that I went dress shopping today!!!!! And, I said yes to the dress!!! It was such a fun day and I can’t wait to share it with you next week (hopefully)!!!!! Thanks to Flavia and her mom at Annapolis Formal for being so wonderful! And, thanks to my personal photographers — Liz and Ryan — from Elizabeth Ryan Photography for capturing all the moments. Finally, I want to thank Brittany and Kaitlin for being with me today and making it such a fun and fabulous day!

So, onto the goodness…Intrigue Design & Decor!!! I’ve known Sarah for so many years. I don’t know if she even remembers that she came over to my house YEARS ago when my twins were about two. At that time, she owned Historic Events and was meeting other vendors in the area. I clearly remember sitting in my den and chatting with her about all things weddings. Now, so many years later, I have grown to love working with Sarah (and Melissa – aka “the flower queen”). And, I can’t wait to see what they “cook up” for the renewal.

Sarah (left) & Melissa (right)
Photo by Hamilton Photography

If you don’t already know Intrigue, you need to! And, here is my interview with Sarah…

Q: I’ve known you for many years, so I know this story, but I don’t think everyone knows how you got into the “flower business”.  Can you share?
A: While running Historic Events Wedding Planning I saw a need for a high end Floral Design Firm that would think outside the box and have the ability to do everything from flowers to lighting and overall event styling. When the opportunity to build Intrigue was presented to me, I jumped at the idea of creating my own Floral Design Company using the knowledge I gained as a Wedding Planner.

Q: What makes Intrigue different from other floral design studios?
A: Intrigue customizes each event to our client’s specific style and personality.  By keeping up with design trends and new products across the globe we stay on the cutting edge of design style assuring that we have an endless flow of new ideas trend setting design concepts to help us create custom designs for our clients.

Q: What is your favorite flower and why?  And, now I want to know Melissa’s favorite flower too.
A: At heart I am a girly girl and I cannot resist blooms with layers of petals creating a ruffled feel. I am currently crushing on English Garden Roses.

Melissa is the party girl and tends to gravitate towards fun flowers with unique shapes and lines.  Most recently she was head over heels in love with Giant Oncidium Orchids shipped direct from Hawaii.

Q: And, know that I’ve mentioned her name, perhaps you should tell everyone a little bit about Melissa and the fabulous team you have!
A: Shortly after the launch of Intrigue I hired award winning floral designer Melissa Huston. Melissa’s expertise in floral design has lead her to design for the Philadelphia Flower Show, The Tournament of Roses Parade and winning numerous design competitions.

Q: Do you have a favorite style of wedding?  Vintage? Nautical? Modern?  Romantic?
A: My favorite style is Eco Chic.  I love using local growers, handmade products and recycled items to create events that are both stylish and eco-friendly.  I once heard Melissa say that her style could be defined as “Clever” as she is always on the lookout for new and interesting ways to re-purpose items in her design.

Q: What question should every bride ask their florist?
A.”Do you love what you do”?  It is vital that the designer responsible for bringing your wedding day to life not only loves their job, but, also loves the design he/she is creating for you.

Q: Are their any trends in bridal bouquets right now OR a trend you would like to see?
A: We are seeing an increase in cascading bouquets.  Bride’s are looking for bouquets with a bit of movement to complement their gowns.

Q: Do you have a favorite photo from one of your weddings?
A: Did you have to ask?   The photographer (Elizabeth Ryan Photography) truly captured the essence of the styled shoot.  This image is exactly as I remember seeing it in person. [Allison's Note: this photo is from a shoot that Sarah and I did last year - Vintage Glam!  I LOVE this shoot, have pictures from it hanging on the walls in my studio and this photo is the first photo you will see when you walk into the doors of Intrigue.  By the way, for those that don't know, the model in the photo is Kaitiln, my assembly queen!]

Q: Describe Intrigue Design & Décor in five words.
A: Stylish – Interesting – Unique – Clever – Wow

So there you have it! I’m so excited to have them aboard the “dream team”! Next week, it will be all about the dress!!